Before, Xiao Zhi was the kind of person who stayed home a lot. As long as he had a computer and a phone, if he didn't have anything to do, he could spend his time creating things, reading novels, watching movies, and playing games all by himself. He could stay indoors for days on end.,"Yeah, your mom's right, try to see the bigger picture." Father chimed in as well.,The most effective way to get over a relationship is to keep yourself busy, distract yourself, and leave no time to dwell on it.。